The first week with your rescue dog sets the tone for your life together. Focus on routine, patience, and decompression. Here’s a quick breakdown:
Day 0: Prepare your home (puppy-proof, set up a safe zone, stock up on supplies).
Day 1: Go outside first, then slowly introduce your home. Keep things quiet.
Day 2: Allow slow exploration, introduce other pets carefully, watch eating/pooping.
Days 3–7: Build routine, expand activities, work on potty training, and focus on bonding.
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The first few days and even weeks can also be overwhelming for you and your rescue pup. So, let’s ensure the first week goes as smoothly as possible.
This day-by-day guide will help you make the most of your first week together.
Day 0: BEFORE you bring home your new rescue dog
A successful transition from shelter to home starts even before you bring your dog home. Do these four steps to prepare your home for a dog:
1. Dog/puppy-proof your house.
Make sure no electrical wires are hanging on the floor, pick up small items a dog may find enticing to chew, and gate off areas of the home you don’t want the dog to have access to.
📖 Get tips on how to best puppy-proof your home.

2. Walk through your yard.
Check that your fence is in good condition with no areas where the dog may squeeze or dig under the fence. Check the gates to make sure they are closed and latched.
3. Create a safety zone for your dog.
Give your new rescue dog a safe area to decompress, this will help them feel more comfortable.
An open crate in a quiet room is a great tool to create a comforting den-like area.
If you choose not to use a crate, then set up an area with a dog bed, blankets, water, and chew toys.
📖 READ: How and Why Crate Train Your Dog in 3 Easy Steps
4. Stock up on supplies.
It’s best to go to the store or order your dog supplies before you bring home your pup. Do not take your new dog to the pet supply store on the way home. This would be much too overwhelming to start your relationship together.
You will need food, food/water bowls, a collar, a leash, and an ID tag. Of course, a few toys and a chew bone would be nice too.
Here is my Amazon shopping list for my recommended dog products.

Day 1: Bringing your dog home
We have adopted eight dogs and fostered many more over the years, so to say I’ve gone through this phase many times is an understatement.
The following advice works and will make your life easier and your dog’s transition into your home much smoother. Take your time, do not rush any of these steps.
1. Outside before inside
When you arrive home after picking up your new pup, introduce them to the outside of your house first. Let them take in all the new smells and surroundings.
Show them where they will go potty in your yard. And then take them for a long walk, at the very least around the block.
2. Introducing your new dog to the inside of your home
After the walk, enter and introduce your dog to your house slowly.
They will be stressed for the first few days, so the smaller the new area is, the more comfortable they will be. Restrict access to one area of the home.
Keep them on a leash for at least the first day, preferably the first three days. You don’t always have to hold on to the leash; they can drag the leash around with them, but this gives you quick access to them if needed.
I do this with each of our foster dogs. It helps the dog not get overwhelmed, stay out of trouble, and limits potty accidents.
3. Keep the first day and week quiet and low-key
The first day your adopted dog comes home should be uneventful. Keep things quiet and calm. As tempting as it may be, don’t invite your friends to meet your new pup.
Don’t take them to the dog park. Avoid overwhelming situations altogether.
Wait until they have a chance to get to know you and their new home first. Give them plenty of quiet time to settle in.
4. Get to know your new dog
Sit back and observe your new best friend. Let them approach you. Don’t overwhelm them with too much affection right away. Remember, the first few days are all about decompression.
If you have kids, don’t allow them to hang on the dog, hug them, put their faces to the dog’s face, etc. In other words, help your kids understand the dog needs time and space for a little while.
Learn to read your dog’s body language. It will help you bond and understand your dog so much better!

5. Bringing a new dog home to another dog
If you have other pets in the home, keep them separated for the first 24-48 hours.
Remember, your new dog is stressed. Meeting another dog just adds to that stress and can result in a dogfight.
Even if they are the friendliest dogs in the world, or if the dogs have met before. Bringing another dog into your home is different than a casual meeting, and dogs react differently when it is in their territory.
Whenever we bring in a new foster dog, they are separated from our dogs for a full 24 hours. The 24-hour rule is required by the rescue I work with. I will admit, it was very hard the first few times we brought in a foster dog.
It’s so tempting to want to bring the dog in and let everyone play.
To get my full protocol on adding a second dog…
📖 READ: The Best Way to Introduce a Second Dog Into Your Pack.

The first meal
Don’t worry if your dog doesn’t want to eat the first few days, this is completely normal. Most dogs won’t eat when they are stressed.
If you can feed them the same food they were eating in the shelter to alleviate any upset stomachs and diarrhea. And make sure they drink plenty of water.
Wean them to a new food next week. For this first week, keep things simple.
📖 READ: How long can a dog go without eating?
The first night
Your new dog is most likely going to be exhausted the first few nights. But some dogs may cry, howl, or bark when it’s time for bed.
We put a crate in our bedroom for our new foster dogs to sleep. This helps the dogs feel more comfortable knowing they aren’t alone.
Some people feel that a crate is cruel. It is not… a crate will keep them safe when you are sleeping. Imagine if they were allowed to roam around the house without supervision, a house they aren’t familiar with… oh, the trouble they could find!
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Day 2: Expanding their world
Your dog may want to explore their surroundings more. You can open another area of the home for them to get to know.
Every dog is different; so, don’t be concerned if your newly adopted dog prefers to hide under the table or in their crate. This is perfectly normal and part of the decompression process.
But if your dog is ready to explore, take it slowly. Do not give them full access to your home just yet.
Keeping their “freedom” to a minimum will help keep unwanted behaviors at bay. I know… You look into those puppy eyes and wonder what they could do that would be so terrible!
When a dog is stressed and in a new environment, stuff happens… potty accidents, chewing, marking, and who knows what else!

Other pets
If you have other pets, you may introduce them now. If it is another dog, make the meeting outside in a neutral area. Take them both for a long walk together before entering the home again.
If you have a cat, then I suggest keeping the introduction on the cat’s terms. Using a baby gate to give the cat a space to escape if desired.
Remember, your new dog may have never seen or experienced things you take for granted. Stairs, TV, kids, bicycles, can all be strange to a new dog.
It’s always interesting to me that with every foster dog we bring in, each one has some sort of quirk. Many of our fosters have never been on a walk, so when we walked by a big boulder or someone riding a bike, the dog would jump back out of fear.
It’s important to keep all this in mind when introducing and exposing your dog to new experiences.
Always be patient, positive, and reassuring. Don’t avoid the things that make him fearful, but slowly show him there is nothing to be afraid of.
Eating and pooping
Most dogs will eat on the second day, but again, there is no reason to panic if they don’t want to eat yet. As long as they are drinking water, they will be okay.
Some dogs also don’t like to potty in strange places, so don’t be surprised if they haven’t pooped yet… especially if they haven’t eaten.
This is a little gross but look at their poop for the next few weeks. Even if the shelter or foster home gave them a clean bill of health, sometimes worms and parasites can creep up during times of stress. Any signs of abnormal poop warrant a visit to your vet.

Days 3-7: Building Trust and Routine
The next few days are about comfort and connection.
- Sit on the floor, let them approach.
- Observe where they settle — move their safe zone if needed.
- Start establishing routine: feeding, walks, potty, play, sleep. Routine = security.
- Add small outings like short neighborhood walks.
- Expect potty accidents — go back to basics.
- Be a confident leader: calm, consistent, reassuring. Dogs take cues from your energy.

What happens after the first week?
Congrats, you made it through the first week with your new rescue dog! Was it easier or harder than you expected?
Remember, every dog is unique. Don’t compare your dog to someone else’s. Your pup may need more time, and that’s okay.
📖 Next, read about the 3-3-3 rule for dogs to understand the bigger picture of adjustment.
And don’t forget, Rescue Dogs 101 has resources to help you every step of the way.

FAQs: First Week With a Rescue Dog
What should I do if my rescue dog cries the first night?
Place their crate in your bedroom so they don’t feel alone. Offer a soft bed, a blanket, and patience. Most dogs settle in after the first few nights.
How much exercise should my rescue dog get in the first week?
Keep it light… short, calm walks are perfect. Avoid dog parks or high-energy outings. Let them decompress before adding more.
Is it normal for my new dog not to eat right away?
Yes! Stress can suppress appetite for a few days. Stick with familiar food and always provide water. Appetite usually returns within a week.
Final Thoughts
The first week is about decompression, building trust, and establishing a routine. Keep things simple, quiet, and consistent. Celebrate the little wins, and be patient with setbacks.
👉 Download your free Adoption Survival Kit to get checklists and guides for this week and beyond.
📖 And don’t forget to learn about the 3-3-3 Rule for Dogs, the bigger picture of how long it really takes for your dog to adjust.
You’ve got this. It may feel overwhelming now, but a few months from today, you’ll look back at this first week with a smile, amazed at how far you and your dog have come.
We just got a 5 month old pitbull last week. He’s sweet and loves being on top of you like a lap dog. We’re trying to house train him but he still has accidents when we’re not hawking him. It’s as if he waits for the moment we let our guard down and goes somewhere he’s not in eye sight then pees. Mind you, we had just taken him out 30 minutes ago or less. He also has spurts of over-excitement and nips at us when we tell him no. When we tell him no, he just gets more aggressive. We have a 1 year old. Please give me some tips. thank you.
Trust me I know how frustrating it can be, but you need to be patient. He’s been through a lot and needs time to get to know you and adjust. A few articles I want you to read:
How to Potty Train a Puppy Fast & Easy
How Do I Get My Puppy to Stop Nipping or Biting Me?
Next, please join us in our Facebook community. It helps to be among others that are going through similar issues.
Hi ! I just rescued a 6 month old lab mix . They didn’t have any history on him they said he was transferred from another shelter . He’s super sweet and playful but he’s very nervous which is to be expected . He nervous pees a lot and he barks a lot at my boyfriend . He also refuses to come back inside after I take him out . Any tips ? I also tried to leave him in the crate and he was screaming crying and digging in the cage , I thought he would have been used to cages being in shelters. What do I do ? How do I leave the house ?
Hi Nikki, if you just brought the dog home, then he needs time to decompress and adjust. Please read this article first: https://www.rescuedogs101.com/bringing-new-dog-home-3-3-3-rule/
We also have many resources on the blog about crate training and potty training.
Hi, thank you for the download it’s full of excellent advice.
I have a 2yr old Romainian rescue Heinz 57 for all of 2 days, she eats drinks and toilets perfectly, she is already playing playing with us, but I do have 2 issues, 1 she chases the cat and 2 she will bark excessively at whoever is in the house if the come down from upstairs or through the front door.
She has full access through the house except the bedrooms, she has her own bed but jumps on the couch there are no stair gates and no crate as I felt she had been caged long enough plus the foster didnt cage, but she was with 2 other dogs is this where I’ve gone wrong
Kind regards
Lorraine
Lorraine, two days is much too soon to suspect any behavior issues. Please read about the 3-3-3 rule.
I appreciate the advice on learning how to read the body language of your dog when you first bring it home. I want to adopt a new dog soon. These tips will be very helpful when I find one to adopt.
Just adopted a 3 month pound pup- mastiff mix. It’s been 2 weeks, and he’s coming around. Still very scared but there’s moments of energy play! My question is when I can introduce my siblings eight-month-old puppy to him? I don’t want to add any more stress to him. Also when should I give him his first bath, since he’s so scared and getting to know me I don’t want to stress him out even more 🙂 thank you!
I’m assuming the other puppy doesn’t live with you? I’d start by taking walks together and see how they react. Once they are comfortable walking, then let them play in a backyard for short periods. If either of them start to get stressed, separate. Watch both puppies body language for any calming signals. As for a bath, if he doesn’t stink, then no rush. If he does stink from being in the shelter, then just give him a quick bath and a lot of comfort afterwards.
We just brought home our 1 yr old pup yesterday. She was fostered for 5 days after being with a family since she was a puppy. She will not lay down unless she is in her crate. Is there a max amount of time dogs should be crated? Or is it better for her to be crated during this transition time if it’s the only time she will relax? Otherwise she walks around the first floor constantly, following me if I am walking around. But if I’m sitting she won’t stay near me, just keeps walking. Thanks!
One day… way too soon to speculate any behavior. You can crate her for as long as you need, but I wouldn’t for more than 8 hours at a stretch. And when she is not in the crate, make sure she gets enough exercise. Read this article next: https://www.rescuedogs101.com/bringing-new-dog-home-3-3-3-rule/.
Hello!
I’d just like to thank you for this informative article!
About 3 days ago I adopted an 8 month old pit/terrier mix.She came from a high kill shelter in TX while I live in MI.
All I can say is this poor girl is afraid of her own shadow. She won’t even come out of her crate to go potty. I have tried to entice her with treats but she puts her head down. So I gently have to get her out of the crate to go outside. Once outside she’s terrified of every sound. I just act like it’s no big deal and praise her when she does her business. I fully intend on taking to her to classes or having a private trainer for her in the future.
She was obviously abused or had very poor socialization. But she is the sweetest and cutest girl I’ve ever seen.
My question would be, do you have any tips or suggestions moving forward? I hate that I have to pick her up out of the crate to go outside. I don’t want to traumatize her. But it seems to be the only thing that works!?
Again thank you!
Emily B.
MI
Congrats on your new adoption Emily! Three days is still very early in the process of adjusting. I’d give her more time and continue to take her out of her crate to go outside to potty. Does she eat meals on her own? Maybe the treats aren’t high-value enough to make her want to come out? Find something that she loves so much she will do anything for. But with all that said, at this point, I’d give her more time to adjust and learn to trust you. Her world has just been turned upside down.
We brought Bella (I’m thinking lab/pit mix) home tonight from the AZ Humane Society. She immediately knew what to do for potty and riding in the car. She sat perfectly the whole ride home. She has been sweet and calm and going potty outside. She isnt super into eating but drinking a lot. She does have loose bowels but I’m thinking all the change? We drove over to a friends to pick up something and it was dark. Same friends who went with is to shelter and played with her and drove home with us. As they approached the car, it was dark. That was the first time she growled and barked. Definitely a protector but made me nervous. Maybe bc it was dark and she is just been with us for a few hours? But shes been great! She sits and shakes. As soon as we told her kennel for bed she went in. When we walked away she cried so hard. But as soon as my daughter laid by her on the couch she went to bed.
Congrats on your new family member! I wouldn’t worry about the nighttime barking incident. My dogs still get spooked in the dark, even if they know the person.
My husband and i just received our 1 year old Lhasa Apso poodle mix. He was a rescue from TJ Mexico. We are completely in love with him and he seems completely in love with us. We couldn’t be happier, he’s sleeping a lot! We figure the two day road trip from Mexico to the Bay Area has taken a toll on him. If anyone out there is thinking about rescuing and is clear about the responsibility you won’t be disappointed! My husband has said he’s never seen me this fulfilled and happy, it’s a different type of happiness that only fur babies can provide!
Congratulations Leticia on your new adoption! Feel free to join us in our free Facebook group for other rescue dog parents! https://www.facebook.com/groups/690535831406635/
We have just brought a 4 yr old french bulldog home. Our problem is she gets up to go outside 2 or 3 times a night, always has to go to the bathroom. Any suggestions on getting her to control bowels and bladder thru the night? We take her for a good walk before bed and she pees.
My first recommendation is to see a vet to make sure she doesn’t have a UTI or something else medically wrong. If she is cleared health wise, then it may be just a habit she formed. If you don’t let her out will she have an accident inside?