If you’ve ever tried to adopt a dog, you might have felt like you were applying for a top-secret government job. You fill out the application, answer what feels like a million questions, and then nothing. Or worse, you get rejected with no explanation.
So, why do shelters and rescues make it so difficult? Shouldn’t it be enough that you want to love the dog and give them a safe home?
If a rescue is reputable, their goal is to find the best home for the dog—and to prevent returns.
I’ve put together a video that dives even deeper into this process. [COMING SOON]
Let’s break it down from the rescue’s perspective and yours. And learn how to navigate the process and actually get approved.
The Adoption Application Process: Why So Many Questions?
Most rescues have a detailed adoption process, including:
- Long applications with questions about your home, work schedule, and past pets
- Interviews to assess your experience and lifestyle
- Background checks in some cases
It might feel like an interrogation, but the rescue is just trying to ensure:
- The dog won’t be returned
- The dog’s personality and needs match your home
- You’re financially prepared for pet ownership
Many adopters get frustrated and end up buying a puppy from a breeder or pet store instead. But patience pays off—once approved, you’re set for future adoptions.
Strict Requirements: Necessary or Too Much?
Some rescues have extremely specific adoption rules, and not all of them make sense for every home. Common requirements include:
- Must have a fenced yard, even if you plan on daily walks
- No young children, as some dogs don’t do well with kids
- Must own your home, which makes it harder for renters
- Current pets must be up-to-date on vaccines, with no exceptions for titer testing
Some of these rules exist for good reason. However, if a rescue’s requirements seem unreasonable, don’t be discouraged—there are many others with more flexible policies.
Home Visits: What Are They Looking For?
One of the most nerve-wracking steps is the home visit. Some rescues require in-person visits, while others do virtual ones. What are they checking for?
- A safe environment with no toxic plants, unsafe fencing, or hazards
- How you interact with current pets
- Whether the space is appropriate for the dog’s needs
As someone who has conducted home visits, I can say it’s not about judging your housekeeping skills—it’s about ensuring a good match for both you and the dog.
📖 Read: What should I expect from a dog rescue home visit?
Why Does It Take So Long?
Waiting is the hardest part. Once you’ve completed the application and home visit, it can take weeks or even months to hear back. Why?
- Rescues are mostly run by volunteers
- They receive a high volume of applications
- They are waiting for the best match, not just the fastest adopter
While frustrating, the waiting period gives you time to prepare—stock up on supplies, dog-proof your home, and research training methods.
Getting Rejected: What Now?
Rejection is tough, but it’s not always personal. Common reasons include:
- Another applicant was a better match
- Your home setup didn’t fit the dog’s needs
- You lack experience with certain breeds or behavioral issues
If you get rejected:
- Ask why. Some rescues will tell you what you can improve for next time
- Apply elsewhere. Different rescues have different policies, and another may be a better fit
- Don’t give up. There are thousands of dogs needing homes—your perfect match is out there
Adoption Fees: Why Do Rescues Charge So Much?
Some people are surprised to see adoption fees ranging from $200 to $600. Why does it cost so much?
- Spay/neuter surgery
- Vaccinations and microchipping
- Medical treatments, such as heartworm or dental care
- Food and shelter expenses
In reality, adopting is cheaper than buying a dog and covering all these costs yourself. Plus, your fee helps the rescue continue saving more dogs.
📖 Check out our Dog Adoption Cost Chart
What About Behavioral or Health Issues?
Rescue dogs sometimes come with challenges, whether it’s anxiety, fear, or medical issues. Be prepared for:
- Separation anxiety
- House training setbacks
- Reactivity or nervousness in new environments
- Unexpected vet bills
Not every dog will have issues, but it’s important to be ready for the possibility. If you’re willing to be patient and put in the work, the reward is worth it.
The Emotional Rollercoaster of Adoption
Adopting a dog isn’t always easy. The excitement of bringing them home can be followed by moments of doubt, frustration, and even adopter’s remorse.
This is normal. Adjusting takes time. Here are some ways to set yourself up for success:
- Join a support group to connect with other rescue dog parents
- Work with a trainer, even if your dog is well-behaved
- Be patient. It can take weeks or months for your dog to feel truly at home
Final Thoughts: Is It Worth It?
Absolutely. Yes, the process is tough. Yes, it’s frustrating at times. But when you see your rescue dog settle in, trust you, and become part of your family, it makes every hurdle worth it.
Want to make adoption easier? Grab my free guide, From Rescue to Home: Your Survival Packet, to prepare for life with your new pup.
If you’ve had an unusual adoption experience, I’d love to hear about it in the comments. Let’s help each other navigate this journey.
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